As a parent we often beat ourselves up for the mistakes we make when raising our kids. We let our selfishness and stress get in the way of how we love and respond to them. Then we beat ourselves up because we were too harsh, or quick to anger.
Can we tell you something that has brought huge breakthrough to us as we parented our kiddos?
Simply being there for them and choosing to be fully present (aka not on your phone!) is much more impactful than the moments you lose your self-control. Being able to say you’re sorry and move on speaks volumes. Choosing to love them and care for their hearts will bear lasting fruit in seasons to come.
Even when you do not feel like you have the capacity to love and disciple them - if you MAKE time to be present - you build trust.
SO - today as you go about your day filled with distractions and frustrations just try and ask yourself...
How can I be more present with my family today?
Then let yourself off the hook for the ways that you were not a perfect parent.
